Bye Bye Binky

Last Monday night Oct 26, Maddie decided to give up her binky. I remember the first time we gave Baby Madeline a binky to help soothe her. It was like a miracle. I remember feeling guilty yet relieved I gave her one. She became extremely attached to it, and we had one with us at all time. All the grandparents had them at their homes and we had them all over our house, in diaper bags, back packs , and purses. She LOVEd her binky. Korey and I actually did too. We loved how well it soothed her. She has been the easiest baby and toddler for us, however we have been very attentive to her needs and wants. She is our baby and we do everything for her.

So last Monday when I was reading to her and tucking her in, I told her that when she was ready she could give her binky to the Binky Fairy. She became interested in the Binky Fairy and began asking questions. I began making up quite the elaborate story about the Binky Fairy. She comes at night and takes the binkys when kids are sleeping and leaves a "very special" present. She lives in a castle. Madeline had many questions. I explained once she comes and takes the binkys, they are gone forever. Madeline then said, "Here you go mommy, give my binky to the Binky Fairy", while handing me her binky. I was a little shocked. I was just wanting to prep her with a little conversation about the Binky Fairy. I had no intention of that night being the night she would be done with her binkys. She was done and was looking forward to a special present in the morning. The binky fairy came and left her some dress up clothes, and a My little Pony. I wasn't able to see her reaction or be with her the next day, but Korey was with her. He told me she was so excited, and loved her presents. She has asked about the binky once and has not had any sadness or grieving, as I expected would happen. Its like she just forgot about it. I am so proud of her. Our baby is growing up so fast. I love little moments in her life, like this. I love enjoying every thing about her and watching her grow.